Free Pregnancy Testing offered at A CENTER FOR WOMEN
315 N. Wymore Rd.  Winter Park, FL 32789      (407) 628-5433
Walk-in hours for free pregnancy testing:  9:30am--4:00pm, M-F
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This moving piece is called "Can I Live" and is Nick's personal tribute
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"Our lives begin to end the day we are silent about the things that really matter."  Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

Teens are 6 times more likely to attempt suicide if they have had an abortion
in the last 6 months than are teens who have not had an abortion.


What do you say when.......
......a good friend tells you she thinks she's pregnant?
.......a good friend says he's heard from his girlfriend that she's expecting?
......a close friend tells you she's had an abortion?
........a friend calls to ask you about what to say to her parents when
she breaks the news that she's pregnant?
.......a friend tells you she had a "close call" pregnancy-wise and while
she's not pregnant, she thinks she might have an STD?
......a girl in your class tells you how she's being pressured into sex?

Being there for your friends is one of the great privileges of friendship.
We all need support and love and acceptance, but we need it most especially when:

  • we're in "crisis mode,"
  • we're wondering what to do next,
  • we need a "safe" and confidential person to talk to,
  • we don't know where else to go for real help.

    What your friend may need:
    *acceptance and a sense of not being alone;
    *a friendly ear to listen;
    *a friendly shoulder to cry on;
    *some objective, sound input from a trustworthy, reliable helper;
    *someone who can help her/him find wise, safe adults to help or advise;
    *someone to walk with her/him through the process
    *someone who will still be a friend when the crisis is over.


    *bleeding of any other sort than regular menstrual bleeding
    *abdominal pain in a friend who thinks she's pregnant - can be a bad sign
    *fever, pain or heavy blood loss following an abortion - very bad signs
    *talking about suicide, about hurting or cutting themselves
    *making plans to hurt anyone else
    *out of control behavior or drug or alcohol use before driving a vehicle


    TEEN ABORTION RISK fact sheet from Abortion Facts

  • Here are some more guidelines for how to help a friend in need:

            *She (or he) probably doesn't need preaching to, even if you have very
    strong feelings or opinions about the situation.  There's a time and a good way
    to share your feelings and thoughts, a way that won't alienate your friend and
    leave her/him feeling more alone, but this is probably not it, particularly if your
    friend is upset and emotional.  

            *Ask yourself this question:  "If I were in this situation, what's the first
    thing I'd like to hear my friend say or have my friend do?"
      Most likely this
    is going to involve some version of words like:  "I care about you" or "I'm here
    for you"
    "I'm going to do all I can to help." or  "Keep talking.  I want to
    know more."

            *Get your friend to a nice, safe, quiet, private place where you can talk 
    -- maybe a park or your home or a table at a food court in a mall.  Being with
    a person while they talk through a situation can go a long ways to helping them
    move from "crisis" mode to a calmer "take-action" mode.  Just make sure the
    place feels safe and private for the conversation.

            *It may be that a hug is in order -- especially if you're the same sex -- or
    that you move to stand or sit close beside your friend.  If you're on the phone
    when the conversation starts, you can say something like: 
    "Wow. This is hard. 
    I wish I were there to give you a hug right now."

            *Big adult-size situations like a pregnancy crisis (or suspecting that you
    have an STD or choosing to become sexually active) need to involve more
    people than just those from your group
    of friends.  These are health crises as
    well as personal ones.  Some people you might suggest your friend involve as
    the situation progresses: 
         *parents (or other close family members your friend trusts),
         *a pastor or rabbi or youth worker your friend knows,
         *a school counselor,
         *a doctor. 
    It can be stressful and embarrassing for your friend to think about talking to
    these people about a possible pregnancy (or a possible STD), so offer to go
    with your friend.

              *If you're in the Orlando, FL, area, feel free to give us a call (A Center
    for Women at (407) 628-5433).  We offer completely confidential and completely free crisis help, free pregnancy testing, free pregnancy support services, factual information about every STI or STD and details on where to get tested, factual information on abortion procedures and post-abortion experiences.  Our help is
    free and non-judgmental.  And we even offer after hours appointments for free pregnancy testing and counseling upon request.  Feel free to call even if you're
    not in the Orlando, FL, area -- we'll be glad to get you a referral to the same
    kind of help we offer in your area.

              *Offer to do some internet searching for information and places that can
    help, like these here:                

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